问卷量出来的是刻板印象，速配现场量出来的才是欲望。二十年、四十多个国家，只要面对的是见过面的真人，男女对野心的偏好强度'完全相同'——所谓性别差异，大半活在你填表那一刻，不活在你心动那一刻。拿它当择偶铁律的人，测的其实是文化脚本，不是人本身。

“But then when we flipped it and we looked at what the women were drawn to, not what they said, but what they were drawn to, they also tended to like the ambitious men a little bit, and the magnitude of that preference was identical.”

「但当我们反过来看女性真正被什么吸引——不是她们嘴上说的,而是她们实际被吸引的——她们同样会稍微更偏爱有野心的男性,而且这份偏好的强度一模一样。」机翻 · claude-fable-5